Mom-Approved Stylish Handbags

A friend of mine that is expecting her first child recently asked me what handbags I would recommend for a new mom. I told her all about my diaper bag that I keep mostly on my stroller at all times, and she replied, no no, I mean a well made and timeless everyday handbag that you can wear to work and with the baby.

It occurred to me that my plan to tote around nothing but a diaper bag didn’t happen. I tend to also carry around a handbag at all times, out of habit perhaps, but also for a sense of normalcy. I’m not just a mom, but a person that needs to carry things for ME, not just just my baby.

I told my friend about my best kept secret: a Joanna Maxham handbag.

I’ve actually sold most of my fancy designer bags and am opting for less flashy and not so “precious” these days. Joanna’s bags are durable, beautifully crafted, not heavily branded which I absolutely adore (I’m so not a designer label person!) and while they still look expensive, I don’t mind carrying them on the playground and to work.

This tote has been my go-to bag (I own it in both cognac and silver) and once my friend saw it, she immediately bought it. I actually got stopped at a party by a stranger about this bag and they bought it right after as well. It’s THAT good.

While that one has been a perennial favorite, the bag I’m wearing here from her spring collection is my new every day handbag that I’ve been wearing on repeat. I wore it to NYFW as seen here and then straight to music class with my baby right after (#momlife).

According to Who What Wear, “Olsen-sized bags” are back in style for spring / summer 2018. Thank goodness for this mama. It holds everything so I can basically pack up my whole apartment when I leave for a few hours. The shape is also so unique and modern that it definitely receives a lot of attention that you hardly notice the baby food in my hair.

See more of Joanna Maxham’s beautiful designs here. 

STYLIST TIP OF THE DAY: If you want to look more fashion forward than say, classic LL Bean, try folding your turtleneck IN or letting it scrunch, rather than folding it out. 

BONUS STYLIST TIP OF THE DAY: The key to mixing your patterns is to:

A) keep them all in the same color family

B) Mix the sizes of the prints so they are not all the same 

C) just do it. 

BA&SH COAT // Proenza Schouler PANTS // Petite Bateau TURTLENECK (now sold out, but very similar on sale for $28!) // Joanna Maxham BAG (c/o) // Dear Frances BOOTS (sold out, but similar for less!) // Brixton HAT

Thank you Joanna Maxham for partnering with me on this post. What I choose to wear and say are 100% my own choices and opinions. 

FAQs

How many handbags does the average woman actually need?

You may need fewer than you think. Having a few versatile bags that work for different parts of your life is often more useful than having dozens of bags that rarely get used. The goal is to choose bags you’ll reach for again and again.

How do I know if a handbag fits my lifestyle?

Think about how you spend most of your days. A bag should support your routine, whether that’s commuting, traveling, running errands, or chasing little ones around. The best bag is one that makes your life easier. Choosing pieces that truly fit your lifestyle is something we focus on during The Closet Refresh®.

Should I choose a trendy handbag or a classic one?

It depends on how you plan to use it. If you’re looking for an everyday bag, classic styles often provide more versatility and longevity. Trendy bags can be fun additions, but they usually work best alongside timeless staples.

What makes a handbag feel comfortable to carry all day?

Weight, strap length, and overall design all play a role. A beautiful bag won’t get much use if it’s uncomfortable. Comfort is just as important as style when choosing an everyday handbag.

Is it worth owning more than one everyday bag?

Many women find it helpful to have a couple of options depending on the season, occasion, or amount they need to carry. Having a small rotation can also help extend the life of your bags.

How do I choose a handbag that works with most of my wardrobe?

Look at the colors and styles you wear most often. Choosing a bag that complements your existing wardrobe makes it much easier to use regularly. Versatility is usually more important than following trends. If you’re still defining your personal style, my Find My Style Quiz is a great place to start.

What’s the best handbag size for moms?

The best size is one that fits your everyday essentials without encouraging you to carry things you don’t actually need. Many moms find that a medium-sized bag offers the right balance between function and style.

Can a handbag make an outfit look more polished?

Absolutely. A well-chosen handbag can pull an outfit together and make even simple basics feel more intentional. Sometimes it’s the accessory that completes the entire look.

How often should I replace an everyday handbag?

There’s no set timeline. A quality bag can last for years when properly cared for. If a bag still works for your lifestyle and wardrobe, there’s no reason to replace it simply because a new trend appears.

What’s the biggest mistake people make when shopping for handbags?

Many people focus on appearance without considering function. Before purchasing a bag, think about what you’ll actually carry and how you’ll use it. The most stylish bag is the one that works for your real life.

How do I keep my handbag from becoming a catch-all?

Regularly editing what’s inside can make a big difference. Keeping only the essentials helps your bag stay organized and makes it easier to find what you need throughout the day.

Should moms choose style or function when buying a handbag?

The best bags offer both. A handbag should support your daily routine while still making you feel confident carrying it. You shouldn’t have to sacrifice style for practicality.

How can I build a more intentional handbag collection?

Start by identifying the bags you use most often and why. Understanding what works for your lifestyle can help you make smarter purchases in the future and avoid buying bags that sit unused in your closet.

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